yesterday was Monday and I decided to fast. and I break my fast at the mosque near my workplace. I’ve decided to not go home early idk why. I was not in my best mood yesterday and I kept thinking of my relationship with k. don’t get me wrong. if you think that I want to leave hime just like that, no. I will not. but maybe I need time to think about everything that we’ve been through and what future holds for us. I need to tell him that I need time, but he is undergoing his tests and projects this week, and I know that I should never disturb him in this kind of situation. I still remember how last Sunday we had some arguments, and I sent him back to his uni and I left to go home. and later he told me that he really can’t study since he kept on thinking about everything. then we met up at kfc after his uni, and we kinda discussed some things and we smiled again. hopefully he really can study that night since he said so, and later yesterday had all these negative thoughts coming to my mind which is definitely not healthy. but I told myself to not disturb him but I still believe that he can sense it. I mean it is obvious when I didn’t text him during my free time, and I didn’t reply him soon as how I used to, and I said that I’m going to the mosque after work and stay there till isyak prayers, and I didn’t eat a proper meal after fasting for the day, anddd the most obvious one is when I ajak him to one volunteer event this Saturday and later on I told him that I have no intention of wanting him to accompany me, but just to tell him about this event in case he is interested. haha. I know. I’m stupid, but I’m not on my right mind, and I keep thinking about how we probably should not meet every week as how my parents had advised us to. and of course, he is hurt by how I say I am okay if he is not joining.
oh I still remember how I told him (during discussing) that how he is happy without me. and maybe if that is what will make him happy, then I guess I just have to do that. I don’t want to write what you guys are thinking right now cause deep inside, I really don’t want this to happen. but every thing that has happened influenced me so much that it overwhelmed me to that point. and he stressed out and he forced me to eat with him as he can’t handle the words I said. and he cried. . yup. he is kind of depressed how I can easily say that which mean I am ready and I ‘can’ choose that solution. I get how he felt. if it were me, I would be extremely sad too. but yeah, I’m sorry, but I just .. idk.
so anyway, I went to the mosque to perform my maghrib and isya’ prayers. and I was lucky that they held a kuliyyah Maghrib. I went to one tazkirah before zuhur too and I can say that they are pointing out the importance of doing good deeds (beramal soleh) and to apply sunnah in our everyday life. keep on doing better everyday and be better. slowly but surely. to give charity, sedeqa and infaq. to recite Quran everyday. to take care of our aurah. to take care of our tongue and hand. practising good deeds can be divided to two which is for our akhirat, and for our dunya. for our akhirat, of course, to perform what has been assigned for us, and for dunya, is to work sincerely to find rezqi and money for our life. for our family.
till then.